Why is it Important to have A Relationship with God?

By David •  Updated: 12/11/20 •  13 min read

Have you ever wondered why some people have a deeper relationship with God than others?

You may have already thought that, like many human parents, God has his favorite children. While some seem to be so intimate and close, others seem distant and indifferent to the Father.

But the reality is that God has neither favorites nor loves one son less than the other (Acts 10:34). He loves every human being with infinite and unconditional love.

He brought everyone the freedom to approach His throne of grace with confidence. So it is us, not He, who chooses how close or far we are to His throne where God is. (Hebrews 4:16)

Therefore, your relationship with God depends only on your willingness and commitment to approach Him. Jesus’ invitation is always open. He speaks in our hearts:

Relationship with God in the Bible

It is impossible to have a relationship with a person you do not want to meet.

God chose to reveal Himself through a book, and it is through the Bible that we can know the Father’s character, who He is, and who we are in Him! 

It is through the Bible that we learn how to approach Him. How to please Him and how to direct our prayers to the Lord of the Universe. Such a great God who chooses to relate to such small creatures.

Therefore, remember that a deeper relationship with God implies knowing and being known. Spend time reading the Word and get to know the God to whom you address your prayers better and better.

It is also through the Bible that we learn from the most intimate relationship we can know:

Intimate Relationship with God: the example of Christ with the Father

If we look carefully at the Word, we will easily notice that Jesus had a prayer life. 

In all the gospels, we can find accounts of Christ praying to God. Teaching and encouraging his faithful followers to pray and, mainly, leading by example.

The Only Begotten Son always sought to be in a relationship with God. He prayed not only during the day but also in the early hours (Mark 1: 35).

Christ did not make decisions before talking to the Father. The Word says that before choosing those who would be his twelve apostles, Jesus spent the night praying to God (Luke 6: 12). 

In Gethsemane, just before being handed over and arrested, Jesus again instructs his disciples to pray that they will not fall into temptation (Luke 22: 39-40). 

Knowing the pain that he would suffer and the wrath of God that he would experience. He prayed incessantly (Luke 22: 41-44). 

In his last seconds in this world, Jesus prayed to the Father. In his last breath, he cried out with a loud voice: “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit!” (Luke 23: 46) and expiated, consumed what he had to do according to God’s will, took all our sins on him!

Prayer for a relationship with God

Is that you? Have you prayed today? Have you ever taken time alone with God? 

We need to mirror the early church reported in Acts in chapter two.

Upon receiving the apostles’ message, people became aware of who Christ was (and are) and repented of their sins, persevering in prayer (Acts 2:42). 

We need to persist in prayer. It is through it that our faith is strengthened, and we measure our relationship with God.

Do you love someone you don’t know? Do you love a person who doesn’t talk to you? One way to demonstrate our love for God is to maintain a prayer life. 

God loved you, so love Him back. Persevere in prayer!

The prophet Jeremiah says: “You will seek me and you will find me when you seek me with all your heart.” (Jeremiah 29:13).

Draw close to the Father, tear your heart before God and persevere in prayer. The more you love Him, the more you will taste His love back.

Also Related: 15 Awesome Powerful Prayers for Marriage Protection.

Three essential practices to strengthen a relationship with God

Having a relationship with God is very important in the life of every Christian. Seeking communion and increasing relationship with him every day is one of the greatest needs we have. 

For this to happen and to have a deeper relationship with God, we need to dedicate ourselves and take actions that bring us closer to Him. Knowing that when we come to Him, He comes to us, as written in James 4.8.

In the following lines, we will present some essential practices for those who wish to strengthen their relationship with God. If you are one of those people, stay with us, and learn to grow a relationship with God!

  1. Make your daily devotional

If you desire to grow your relationship with God to the point of being called your friend, you must seek his presence. And the best way to do that is to practice the devotional periodically.

After all, there is no way to become friends with someone if we have no contact or are not interested in knowing more about that person. With God, we can say, it works similarly.

We will only achieve this desired relationship with the Lord if we dedicate ourselves to Him. The devotional is the ideal way to approach Him because, in those moments, we can know more about God.

  1. Maintain a prayer life

In addition to devoting ourselves to prayer during devotional periods, we need to talk to God at all times.

In 1 Thessalonians 5:17, the Bible directs us to pray without ceasing, and that is a relationship with God. Prayer works so beautifully that the more we pray, the more we feel like praying and the closer we get to God.

  1. Share your day to day with God

While you shower, prepare breakfast, get dressed, or do routine tasks, instead of thinking about problems or worries, talk to God.

Recite Bible verses that you have memorized, or sing songs that speak of how wonderful God is.

Give thanks for the food, clothes, and everything you are using at that moment that He has provided for you.

  1. Invest in reading Christian books and listening to sermons

Another valuable practice for those who want more knowledge and an increased relationship with God is reading Christian books.

This book helps us understand more about the Christian life and better understand the faith we profess.

It’s good to remember that we’re not talking about leaving the Bible in the background. The Bible is God’s Word and, therefore, the main rule of conduct and practice for Christians.

However, what you should understand is that a good Christian book based on God’s Word can help your knowledge of the scriptures, helping you grow your relationship with God.

Also, listen to sermons daily to have a deeper relationship with God. There are many relationships with God sermons preached that have assisted many individuals to experience fulfillment in their life. For example https://youtu.be/6RsQYcUpROE

Following these guidelines, you will realize that, over time, you will have much more fellowship with the Lord.

You will notice your life being guided by Him, and you will be able to say like the verse in Galatians 2.20. And I live, no longer I, but Christ lives in me.

Relationship with God

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Restoring relationship with God

As Christians, sometimes we go through difficult times when we can’t see the end of the tunnel. By dint of falling into sin, we feel estranged from the face of God and no longer dare to pray or go to church.

The enemy pushes us, through negative thoughts, to blame excessively and to flee from the Lord. Yet the Bible declares that where sin abounds, grace abounds (Romans 5:20).

Fear, anger, addiction, bad habits and associates, laziness… It’s time to say stop and get back to your old spirituality!

How do you restore your relationship with God?

  1. Amend your ways

You don’t pray anymore, your Bible is dusty, and you haven’t been to church in months. You let yourself be overcome by doubt and guilt and no longer dare to find yourself face to face with God.

Yet deep inside, you feel that the Holy Spirit is not completely extinguished. You feel your flame for the Lord is still burning and that God has not finished with you. It’s time to make a difference!

You must amend your ways and put an end to this daily routine. Too long have you shied away from God’s will for your life. Too long have you strayed from the right path and forsaken sanctification!

God is calling you today to come back to Him. You are the only one who can make this decision. No one will force you to do it, so it’s up to you to say stop once and for all!

“Let us search out and examine our ways, and turn back to the Lord.” – Lamentations 3: 40-41

  1. Ask for forgiveness

Whatever your sins and however long you have been away from the Lord, know that He can forgive you if you return to Him with a sincere heart. Think about the parable of the Prodigal Son. (Luke, 15).

In the same way that this Father welcomed his son, who had nevertheless just squandered his fortune. God can also welcome you because he is a loving and compassionate Father. Want to go home?

He will open the door for you and welcome you with open arms! You must, therefore, humble yourself before the Lord and acknowledge your sin. It’s up to you to open your heart.

Talk to him, tell him what you’re sorry about, and show him that you got the lesson. This is conversion: Which means change.

  1. Pray and fast

Asking God for forgiveness is one thing, but you still have to forgive yourself. Do not dwell in the past; do not remember your faults.

Stop thinking about those acts which paralyze you and prevent you from moving forward. Just as you would seek to reestablish dialogue after an argument, you should reestablish times of prayer, praise, and worship.

If you are keen to fast, do not hesitate to do so because it is a good way to testify your willingness to start anew with the Lord.

  1. Persevere

Now you have to prove to God that you have changed and want to end your past mistakes. The path will not be easy because sanctification is a daily struggle.

You will be brought daily to struggle against the desires of your flesh, evil thoughts, and temptations. But you must persevere, fight the good fight, and continue to nurture your relationship with God!

The more time you spend in his presence, the less attracted you will be to the things of the world.

“Rejoicing in hope, patient[a] in tribulation, continuing steadfastly in prayer.” –    Romans 12:12

God has a special and special plan for your life, but so does the enemy.

The voice he wants you to use will always be easier and more appealing than what God offers you. Yet it is a trap! You have fallen between its nets in the past. Try not to make this mistake again in the future.

Relationship with God quotes

Relationships with people are dynamic, as they often change over time and can deepen. So it is with your relationship with God.

Just as God’s mercies are new each morning, your relationship with God can also be new and alive every morning! The relationship becomes deeper as your love for him increases.

Jesus says, “Behold, I am at the door, and knock; if anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will enter his house, and I will dine with him, and he with me.”  Revelation 3:20.

Here are seven quotes were specifically chosen to strengthen your relationship with God:

“My relationship with God is my number one focus. I know if I take care of that, God will take care of everything else” Unknown

“To strengthen our relationship with God, we need some meaningful time alone with Him” Dieter F Uchtdorf

“To be loved by God is the highest relationship” Henry Blockaby

“The greatest comfort in this life is having a close relationship with God.” David O. McKay

“It’s important to have a relationship with God. He’s the only one that can get down inside of you and heal what needs to be healed inside.” Joyce Meyer

“Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; also trust in me.”  Jesus Christ

“When you feel lonely, just remember that God is always there for you even though when it seems you’re at your lowest breakdown, that’s when your breakthrough begins.” Unknown


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Pray for a relationship with God

What is praying? To pray is to address God, to speak words to the Lord humbly. Make confessions to the Father, worship, and, of course, plead with the Father for our desires and needs.

For example, in Paul’s letters, we see the apostle pleading with God several times, crying out to the Lord for something. 

It is our way of talking to the Lord, approaching Him with a broken heart to show gratitude and magnify Him by crying out for His presence and direction. It is the “direct line” with Heaven!

Prayer is your moment with God. It is a moment of relationship. 

After all, Christ Himself instructed us in the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 6: 5-8), saying that we should pray in secret.

Although public prayers with the brothers and constant prayers are important throughout the day, a deep relationship with God can only be done alone.

To pray intimately is to be alone with God, appear in secret, in your room, with closed doors, without external interference. Without wanting to show yourself to others, approaching the Father and talking with Him – prayer is a relationship.

In conclusion

You must decide for yourself the relationship you want to have with God.

You must first believe that it is possible to have a deeper relationship with God before you can enter into that relationship. Because everything – spiritually speaking – is a product of someone’s faith.

Suppose you choose to fulfill these conditions (obey the Word of God in your life).

God will become a beloved friend with whom you can have daily fellowship. He will not be far from you, but he lives and speaks in your heart and mind through the Holy Spirit.


Is an Ordained Minister and Life Coach. He is an ordained minister since 1988. Shortly after receiving Jesus as his personal savior, he answered the call to ministry.

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